Cards of condolence and remembrance

A quiet note for someone who has lost someone, a card in their faith's tradition, or a candle on the anniversary of a death. There are cards to invite people to a prayer meeting or memorial service, for the loss of a pet, and for the family to thank everyone who reached out.

Pick a card to start

Which card for which moment

  • Condolence Card — a quiet note for someone who has lost someone. A linen envelope, a folded letter and your words.
  • Anniversary of Loss — a candle on the anniversary of a death, for the friend who remembered.

What to write

  • Use their name. People who are grieving are glad to hear it.
  • Say one true thing: a memory, or what they meant to you.
  • Leave out the reasons. "At least" and "everything happens for a reason" rarely comfort anyone.
  • Ask for nothing. Say there is no need to reply.

Words you can use

I am so sorry about your mother. I will always remember how she made everyone feel welcome. There is no need to reply.
Use this wording
There are no right words. I am thinking of you and your family.
Use this wording
Remembering him with you today.
Use this wording
इस दुख की घड़ी में हम आपके साथ हैं। ईश्वर दिवंगत आत्मा को शांति दें।
Use this wording

How to send it

  1. Choose a card and write a few words in your own voice. The preview shows it as they will see it.
  2. Press Share, then choose WhatsApp or copy the link.
  3. Send a condolence to the person it is for, not to a group. They can open it when they are ready.

Questions people ask

Is it all right to send condolences on WhatsApp?

For many families, yes, especially from a distance. A few words of your own, sent quietly, are welcome. It need not replace a call or a visit.

Is there anything loud on these cards?

No. There is no confetti and no sound. The movement is slow and quiet, and on In Memoriam even the drifting petals are off unless you choose them.

Can I take the card down later?

Yes, at any time from your dashboard.

How long does the card stay live?

On the free plan, most of these stay live for 30 days from when you make them, and the service invitation and family thank-you for 14. Paid plans can choose a longer time.